Saturday, August 16, 2014

JB and Annie Bladow Wedding Sermon

Song of Solomon - My beloved speaks and says to me:
“Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away;
11 for now the winter is past, the rain is over and gone.
12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of singing has come,
and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land.
13 The fig tree puts forth its figs, and the vines are in blossom;
    they give forth fragrance.
Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away.
Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm;
for love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave.
Its flashes are flashes of fire, a raging flame.
Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it.
If one offered for love all the wealth of one’s house,
    it would be utterly scorned.

Mark 10 - And Jesus left there and went to the region of Judea and beyond the Jordan, and crowds gathered to him again. And again, as was his custom, he taught them.
And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” He answered them, “What did Moses command you?” They said, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away.” And Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,[a] and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”



Grace, mercy and peace to you from God our Father, and our Lord Jesus Christ, on this, your wedding day.  Amen. 
Dear friends, especially JB and Annie, What God has joined together, let man not separate.  These words of God take on very special meaning today, as the two of you here, and now are joined together as one flesh.  Today you begin a journey together, until death do you part. 
Til death do you part.  Several months ago, JB had promised that very thing to Annie, but as a joke JB had told her that until death do they part meant 10 years.  Meaning now we’re down to 9 and a half years? 
So over those years, over that time period, which we hope is more than a decade, God promises to be with you, and to care for you, in good time and bad.  God promises to support you in sickness and in health, and God promises to give you love for all those days. 
There will be struggles.  There will be difficulties, and days of sadness alongside the days of joy and happiness.  There will be times where you are both so busy between teaching and drilling that you’ll hardly see each other.  There’ll be times where perhaps you’ll wonder what you were thinking on this day.  But through it all God’s love for you will carry you, and keep you, throughout all the challenges that await you. 
That’s a love that begins and ends with Jesus Christ.  He who showed us what love really is by giving up his life for us on the cross.  Who suffered, bled and died that all our sins might be forgiven.  God’s love is a powerful love.  Many waters cannot quench God’s love, neither can floods drown it.  In fact, nothing in this world can destroy that love.  That is the forgiving love that will keep you and hold you together until death do you part. 
Because God first loves us, we are able then to love each other.  Because God loves us, we’re able to care for each other, no matter what things might happen in the next 9 and a half years, or God willing even for the next 40-50 years.  When money is tight, God loves you, and will provide.  When there is an argument about whose better, UND or NDSU, God has already given you forgiveness.  When one of you is sick, God will be there with both of you throughout it all. 
Today, a life of love, which we pray will be longer than 9 and a half more years JB, begins.  As Solomon writes, “Arise, my love, my fair one, and come away. Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm;  for love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave.”  In fact, love, the love of Christ will keep you until death do you part. 

In the name of Jesus.  Amen.