Sunday, March 23, 2014

Lent 3 - G - 2014 - Bridegroom and Bride at the Well

The Third Sunday of Lent
March 23, 2014- Pastor Adam Moline
Exodus 17:1-7             Romans 5:1-8              John 4:5-30, 39-42
Grace, mercy and peace to you from God our Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, Amen.  Our text today is from the Gospel lesson, especially these words, “Jacob's well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well.”  Thus far our text. 
Dear friends in Christ.  In today’s world, there are all sorts of place where spouses meet.  Perhaps at a dance hall, or in college.  Maybe on Eharmony.com or Christian Mingle, or one of the other of dozens places advertised on Radio and T.V.  But thousands of years ago, things were a bit different.  In the Old Testament times, wells were the gathering place for people to talk, to gossip, to visit, and most importantly, to meet your future spouse.  Yes, wells in ancient Israel were the hot spots for dating.  Abraham sent a servant to Haran to find a wife for his Son Isaac, and it was there at a well, in the late evening, that the servant first met Rebekah, the future Mrs. Isaac, the very literal answer to the prayer he had just prayed. 
It was not many years later, that Isaacs and Rebekah’s son Jacob too, having run away from his brother Esau who sought to kill him for stealing the birthright, fell down at the same well, and met for the first time his future wife Rachel.  Jacob worked 14 years for Rachel’s father Laban, so that he might marry Rachel. 
Moses, some 400 years later, also fled Egypt, having murdered a slave master.  He too, after wandering in the desert sat down next to a well, and met the seven daughters of Jethro, including one named Zipporah.  Moses helped them water their flocks at the well, and soon he too married Zipporah as his wife. 
And so it is in our Gospel lesson today, that Jesus too, the fulfillment of the nation of Israel sits down at the edge of a well dug by his Father Jacob many years earlier.  And who should come, but a woman, who is not married.  But unlike the virginal young madiens of the Old Testament, the woman who comes to see Jesus is not so seemingly righteous.  She’s been married before, not just once, not just twice, but five times before.  And now, she lives outside of marriage with a man who is in fact not her husband, but instead a live in boyfriends if you will.  And what’s worse, this woman is a Samaritan, a people who were despised by the Israelites. 
The woman comes not in the evening when the sun was setting and it was cool and crisp to draw water, but instead she comes in the middle of the day, when no one will be there to judge her and the life of sin that she has chosen.  After all, we are embarrassed by our sin, just as she was.  But as she quietly and quickly seeks to draw her water for the day, Jesus speaks to her, asking her to draw some water up for him to drink. 
The woman is taken aback.  How can a Jew talk to a Samaritan woman?  Especially one who is outcast of her own society because of her sin?  Jesus goes on, “If you knew who I was, the bridegroom of all Israel, you would ask me, and I would give you living water to drink, and you would never thirst again!”  This sounds good to the woman, no more drawing water in the heat of the day, no more walks out of town to the well.  Instead no more thirst.  So she asks for this water from Jesus.
And its then that Jesus cuts to the chase, “Go get your husband so that I can give it to you both,” confronting the woman with her sin.  She sheepishly looks to the ground and tells Jesus a half truth, “I have no husband.”  “You’re right,” Jesus responds, “you’ve had five, and the man you’re with now is not your husband.” 
There’s no going around it, the woman’s sin has been called out.  She knows that God knows the truth about her life, and her lack of holiness.  She knows that He knows.  And she’s terrified.  The Bridegroom Jesus has arrived at the well, and the bride has been found wanting.  The Groom has arrived, and the Bride has fallen short of her end of the bargain. 
No dear friends, I’m not talking about Jesus being married in the way that we think about it.  I mean in the eternal, heavenly way, the way in which you and I and all people of the world are supposed to be the Holy Precious Bride of Christ.  We are supposed to be united with Jesus forever.  We’re supposed to be taken care of by Him, to live in the home he’s prepared in heaven.  And in return, we’re supposed to be Holy and pure, beautiful and radiant for him.  But the problem is, we’re not.  We’re sinful.  We’ve whored ourselves out to false Gods and sinful desires.  We’re all adulterers, not just once or twice, not even just five times like the woman at the well, but over and over again, each and every day. 
Yes, dear friends, you as a sinner are that bride whose found wanting.  You’ve sinned.  Not just in adultery as the woman in our text, but also by all the other commandments as well.  When Christ the bridegroom looks at you, he shouldn’t want you because of your sin.  He shouldn’t want you because you’ve done evil in thought word and deed.  He shouldn’t want you. 
But he does.  He cares about you, just as he cares about this poor Samaritan woman in our text.  He loves you enough that he will point out to you where you’ve fallen short, telling you of your sin, whether it be five husbands, or swearing once.  Not only that but he also will still promise to give you the water of life from the well of God.  He meets you at a well, no not a water well for watering animals, but a shallow well sitting right here in the church.  The well of the baptismal font.  There, in baptismal waters, you are washed in the water of life, made clean, made sparkling, and where Christ makes you his sinful dirty bride, holy and sparkling.  He assigns his own righteousness upon you. 
And then, having washed you and made you clean in baptismal waters, he robes you in the white robe of his righteousness, and brings you to the wedding feast, here at this altar.  There you eat his body and blood, why?  To forgive your sins.  To make you holy.  So that by eating the foretaste of that wedding feast you might receive the life of Christ, and salvation in his name. 
And Jesus loves you so much, that he’s willing to give up all he has to make you into his beautiful bride.  He fulfills Ephesians chapter 5, promising to love you his bride so much that he’s willing to give up his life to care for you.  He’s willing to bleed, he’s willing die, he’s willing to give up all that he has to make you well again.  And he does, on the cross, giving up all to make you his bride holy.  He gives his life, so that it might be your life.  He gives his blood that it might wash you.  He gives his body into suffering, so that you might not.  He forgives you sins on the cross. 

Dear friends, today’s story is a wedding story – and you're the bride.  You're the one Christ wants, and loves.  You're the one he meets and washes at the well.  You're the one he brings to the wedding feast.  You’re the one he gives up all he has to care for.  And so thus, your sin is forgiven forever, and you are the beautiful, holy, precious bride of Christ.  Even forever more.  Amen.