Prayer Service Homily
Job 19:21-27
Have
mercy on me, have mercy on me, O you my friends, for the hand of God
has touched me! 22 Why
do you, like God, pursue me? Why are you not satisfied with my flesh?
23 “Oh that my words were written! Oh that they were inscribed in a book! 24 Oh that with an
iron pen and lead they were engraved in the rock forever!
25 For I know that my Redeemer lives, and at
the last he will stand upon the earth. 26 And after my skin
has been thus destroyed, yet in[b] my flesh I
shall see God, 27 whom I shall see for myself, and
my eyes shall behold, and not another.
My heart faints within me!
2 Corinthians 4:13-18
Since we have the same spirit of faith according to what has been
written, “I believed, and so I spoke,” we also believe, and so we also
speak, 14 knowing that he who raised the Lord
Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and bring us with you into his
presence. 15 For it is all for your sake, so
that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase
thanksgiving, to the glory of God.
16 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self[a] is wasting
away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. 17 For this
light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory
beyond all comparison, 18 as we look not to the things
that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen
are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
Hebrews 12:1-3
Therefore,
since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside
every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us
run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking
to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was
set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated
at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against
himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted.
Grace, mercy and peace to you from God our Father, through
our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Dear friends in Christ. What words can we say on such a day as
this? What can still the tears? What can stop the weeping? What could possibly fill the hole that we
feel here tonight, when such a terrible tragedy has struck, and we feel so much
pain and loss? For a dear child, friend,
and co-worker has been taken from us so suddenly, and we hurt so much because
of it.
He had such a bright future, and was still just a
young man. He had a home ready. He hoped to begin taking over the family farm
next year. He had a lovely girlfriend, a
family who loved him and so much ahead of him.
We don’t know why he was taken from us so early. We don’t know why his life was so short. We don’t know why he was pinned under the
truck instead of off to the side. And
dear friends, we’ll never know the answers to these questions or any of the
others that swirl around in our minds on this day.
But there is one thing we know. And that is the words of our first reading
this evening. We know that Kyle’s
redeemer lives – that our redeemer lives.
And that right now Kyle’s spirit rests with Jesus, even as we care for
his body. He sees God, face to face
right now.
We can be certain – absolutely certain – where Kyle is
right now because of the work of Jesus Christ.
Who endured the cross, bleeding, suffering, and dying for all sin, and
for all sinners. He died for you, for
me, and for Kyle. And as that car spun
out of control, Jesus was there with Kyle, providing for him, and taking him by
the hand into peace and comfort everlasting.
No, in Jesus, death is not our end – it cannot conquer
us, no matter how difficult the situation.
Jesus laid in the grave on three days, and still conquered, being raised
into life eternal. And because Jesus
rose, so too will Kyle one day. As St.
Paul writes, “He who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and bring
us into his presence.” That promise is
Kyle’s in his baptism, that many years ago in water and the word he already
inherited eternal life. His body will be
alive again on the last day of this world, and he shall forever be with
Jesus.
And so we don’t grow fainthearted. We do not lose heart. We endure, day by day, moment by moment,
knowing that Kyle is in the care of God’s nail scarred hands. And knowing, that Kyle’s redeemer is our
redeemer as well. And that in Christ,
and in Christ alone, we too one day will be in the peace and joy that comes in
his grace, mercy and forgiveness alone.
Dear friends, we will never know why what happened has
happened. But we do not that because
Jesus lives, so too will Kyle. Because
Jesus lives, so too will we. And that
promise gives us hope to face each and every day ahead.
It will not be easy.
It will not be a quickly passing pain.
The hole will always be there in you lives. The memories – both good and bad will always
be there. But so too is the promise of
everlasting life in Jesus, and in Jesus alone.
For our Redeemer lives, and in the last, we shall seem
him with our own eyes, face to face, just as Kyle is now, and shall be
forevermore.
In the name of Jesus.
Amen.
Funeral Service Sermon
Isaiah 25:6-9 - On this mountain
the Lord of hosts will make for all peoples
a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wine,
of rich food full of marrow, of aged wine well refined.
7 And he will swallow up on this mountain
the covering that is cast over all peoples,
the veil that is spread over all nations.
8 He will swallow up death
forever;
and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces,
and the reproach of his people he will take away
from all the earth,
for the Lord has spoken.
9 It will be said on that day,
“Behold, this is our God; we have waited for him,
that he might save us.
This is the Lord; we have waited for him;
let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation.”
I Corinthians 15:35-44, 51-57 - But someone will
ask, “How are the dead raised? With what kind of body do they come?” 36 You
foolish person! What you sow does not come to life unless it dies. 37 And
what you sow is not the body that is to be, but a bare kernel, perhaps of wheat
or of some other grain. 38 But God gives it a body
as he has chosen, and to each kind of seed its own body. 39 For
not all flesh is the same, but there is one kind for humans, another for
animals, another for birds, and another for fish. 40 There
are heavenly bodies and earthly bodies, but the glory of the heavenly is of one
kind, and the glory of the earthly is of another. 41 There
is one glory of the sun, and another glory of the moon, and another glory of
the stars; for star differs from star in glory.
42 So is it with the resurrection of the dead. What is sown is
perishable; what is raised is imperishable. 43 It
is sown in dishonor; it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness; it is
raised in power. 44 It is sown a natural body; it
is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a
spiritual body.
Behold!
I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be
changed, 52 in a moment, in the twinkling of an
eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, andthe dead will be
raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. 53 For
this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body
must put on immortality. 54 When the perishable
puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come
to pass the saying that is written:
“Death
is swallowed up in victory.”
55 “O death, where is your victory?
O death, where is your sting?”
56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the
law. 57 But thanks be to God, who gives us the
victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
Matthew 11:25-30 - At that time Jesus
declared, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth,
that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding
and revealed them to little children; 26 yes,
Father, for such was your gracious will.[a] 27 All
things have been handed over to me by my Father, and no one knows the
Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and
anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.28 Come
to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you
rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from
me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for
your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my
burden is light.”
Grace, mercy and peace to
you from God our Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Dear friends in Christ,
especially Yvonne, Jerry, Corey, April, friends, and family of Kyle. I think I maybe met Kyle once or twice at
most. I never knew him as well as many
of you here today. So most of what I
know about him I know from those of you with whom I’ve talked in the last few
days. And what I’ve heard is that Kyle
was a young man who had a good sense of humor, knew where he wanted to go and
what he wanted to do, and who loved farming.
I’ve seen pictures of Kyle
out on a combine bringing in the harvest.
I’ve seen his pictures of him sitting on tractors smiling, and wearing a
greasy old Case IH hat. I’ve heard the
stories about how he was a farmer from day 1, and how he was planning to take
over the family farm next year. I imagine
there was little that Kyle loved more in this world than running the chisel plow,
breaking ground and planting and hoping for a good harvest that fall.
That’s why its so hard
today. Kyle seemed to have so much going
for him, and now he’s gone. Death has
taken a beloved person from us forever. Now,
we break ground to plant and bury the body of a beloved Son, brother,
boyfriend, and friend. And that’s the
very imagery that St. Paul uses in our Epistle lesson for today. He is talking about how we can be sure and
certain of the resurrection of the dead because Jesus himself has been raised,
and yes lives even to this day, sitting at the right hand of God the
Father. And since Jesus has been raised,
so too will all of our loved ones who have died in the faith. As Jesus himself says, “Whoever believes in
me shall not die.”
But there were some who
doubted those words. The loved ones they
buried didn’t look alive. They looked
like they had left this world. They no
longer had hearts beating, or lungs breathing.
They no longer had the spark in their eyes. They had died.
And so St. Paul says, “Just
as you plant the bare and dead looking kernel of corn or wheat, and up sprouts
a living plant, that bears much fruit, so too is it with your loved ones.” We bury them today, knowing that Jesus will raise
them. As St. Paul says “So is it with
the resurrection of the dead. What is planted is perishable; what is raised is
imperishable. It is sown in dishonor; it
is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness; it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body; it is raised a
spiritual body.
And so in just a little
while, we will plant the body of a dear friend in a box made of reclaimed barn
wood, knowing that one day, it will be raised in power, in an imperishable
body, and that Kyle will bodily live again, even as he now spiritually lives
with Jesus. He will be raised, the
resurrection is the truth and hope in which we trust and believe today.
In fact, it is a complete
certainty for us, even in the face of loss, and tragedy. It is a certainty that Kyle will live
forever, because the God in whom Kyle trusted lives forever as well. Yes, Jesus too was planted in a tomb. His body lay dead for three days, having been
brutally killed and tortured on a wooden cross.
He died to pay the price for sin.
For Kyle’s sin. For your
sin. And having done all that was
necessary for sin to be paid for, God the Father resurrected Jesus on that
first Easter morning, promising the same for all who believe and are baptized
into his holy name.
So the saying is true, “’Death
is swallowed up in victory.’ ‘O death,
where is your victory? O death, where is
your sting?’ And in fact, we have
victory through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and through him alone.
So what of us. We know where Kyle is – with Jesus. We know he will be bodily raised by Jesus on
the last day. But what of us, day in and
day out as we miss the jokes, the tales about how “Times are hard” and the help
out on the farm? For us, Kyle’s
confirmation verse has something to say.
Jesus calls to us who are weary in this world of sin, struggle and
death, especially this family who has faced so many losses in the past
year. “Come to me, you who are weary,
and I will give you rest.”
Hear the call and word of
Christ – a word that brings forgiveness, life and salvation to you. Hear the word of Jesus that says your sins
are forgiven as well. Hear the word of
Jesus that speaks the truth, “There is eternal life for you, just as there is
for Kyle, and that you too one day will see God, face to face in the joys of
paradise.” Heed the call of Jesus, who
on the cross, has swallowed up death forever.
Dear friends, Jesus has
given Kyle life eternal. Today we plant
his body, just as he planted many a field, knowing that because of Christ he
will raise again imperishable. Christ
has promised it in his blood. It’s a
promise for you, for me, and for Kyle.
In the name of Jesus. Amen.