Isaiah 49:13-16 Philippians 1:21-26 John 5:24-30
Grace, mercy and peace to you
from God our Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Dear friends in
Christ, especially Joyce, Michele, Michael, and Jeff, family and friends of
Howard. The last few years have been
difficult. A man who was well loved by
so many in the community slowly grew more forgetful, weaker, and less
responsive. A husband, a father and
grandfather, a coach, and principal and a friend struggled more and more. Alzheimer’s wretchedly took from Howard his
memories of all the many activities that he did in his life. Parkinson’s made his body weaker and weaker,
so that he even struggled to eat.
I have to admit,
that being relatively new to Southeast North Dakota, that I didn’t know Howard
the way that so many of you remember him.
I can scarcely believe all the things he accomplished as I read his
obituary. It’s hard to imagine the
number of lives that he impacted in some way.
In the same fashion, it is so difficult to imagine the struggles, tears,
and difficulties as he slowly deteriorated to the point where at times he would
hardly even open his eyes. How hard to
know that a man with whom you all have so many memories, these past few years
had hardly any memory left.
That’s the way it
is with Alzheimer’s. It destroys one’s
memories. It makes you forget. It makes you confused. It is one of the terrible ways that sin works
in our world. Families are left mourning
as they watch their loved one’s memory slowly fade. Friends struggle watching the good times
disappear.
But this I can
tell you today, dear friends in Christ, with all boldness and certainty: even as we forget in this world, even as
sin-caused diseases like Alzheimer’s do their dastardly work among us, God does
not forget. God will not overlook one of
his beloved children, he will not abandon them or leave them behind. For as our Old Testament lesson says, “They
are engraved in the palms of his hands.”
God will not
forget. So much so that God sent his
only Son our Lord Jesus Christ into our world, for one reason and one reason
alone. To suffer for our sin. To bleed for our weakness. To die for our deaths. Nails were driven into the hands of Jesus
because God did not forget his servant Howard.
Those nails held him as he willing gave up his life so that all who
trust in him might have the hope of eternal life. And by his death, Christ proves that God does
not forget his servants, no matter what.
That’s the promise
that was given to Howard in the waters of Holy Baptism. The promise that because Jesus died and rose
again, so too would Howard. Or don’t you
know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into
His death – words we’ve just read a few minutes ago. That means Howard will be raised, just as
Jesus was raised from the dead. As
Christ says, “A day is coming, when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of
God and those who hear will live… A time is coming when all who are in their
graves will hear his voice and come out.
And so, dear
friends, though we weep today, though we mourn, though we hurt, and though we
will miss Howard, we know the truth – Howard is in a better place. God did not forget him, and I can say with
certainty that will not forget him even now.
For Howard to die was gain, for Howard no longer deals with the
struggles of this world, Alzheimer’s or even with sin. He’s with Christ forever more.
And so we weep
with hope. And that hope extends even to
each one of you who is here today. God
will not forget you either. He won’t
forget you in the days and weeks ahead where your mourning will continue. He won’t forget you as you yourself grow old
and deal with the challenges which that brings.
He won’t forget you as you yourself lay in your death bed. He won’t forget where your body is laid to
rest, but will remember to raise you as well.
He will remember you even forever more, and give to you and all
believers eternal life.
He won’t forget
you, as he didn’t forget Howard, for you are engraved in the palm of his
hand. He died for you, because he loves
you so much. He won’t neglect that love,
just as he hasn’t for Howard.
We may forget things. But God won’t. He will remember all his promises to us. Even forevermore. In the name of Jesus. Amen.